Well I have not been there in years and it wasn't like that when I was last there. Maybe it has change. I know the popular places got crowded on good days and those were the days I would avoid. I think we share the same ideals about sailing and I appreciate the opinion on the Canadian Hole. But there are other things to do when the wind dies; hiking, biking, fishing, etc.
Our goal is to experience many places, not all windy; Moab/Sedona for riding. But like you I do not like to agrro personality or style in sports.
Cheers