SCVJeff wrote:

Jeff,
You could not have said it better.
For what it is worth, I don't think if you have one battery cable 10 feet long and the other 6" long, you will have any change in battery performance, and days it will last while dry camping.
My RV has a 'E-Meter' a special meter that measures amp hours going into and out of the batteries. I have broken most of the rules you have claimed should be important in my system. I have the factory pair of batteries in front of the engine supplied by a #4 wire from the alternator. The second pair is about 12' away with #00 wire between them for both ground and +12 volts. I have the #8 wire from my 50 amp solar controller only going to the rear pair of golf cart batteries, and it is fed with #10 UV rated wire from the roof. One run from a pair of 120 watt solar panels, one run from a pair of 45 watt panels and a single 75 watt panel. 3 manufactures all to one controller, three ages. For what it matters, the factory batteries where installed in November 1996, and the second pair 3 months later. All where batteries replaced and given to a friend (still working good) in 2006, at around 10 years old.
Wire length really does not matter very much. The charger is only connected to the rear pair of batteries, while the alternator is only connected to the forward pair of batteries, and those are interconnected with really large wires. I would say that 90 - 95% of all charging came from the solar system, while only about 5% comes from the alternator in my case. I rarely ever run the generator, even while full timing, and watching 8 hours a day of satellite TV!
The real loads in a RV include the small ones, such as the 35 amp hours used daily by three things. The CO Meter, propane detector and refrigerator.
Other loads that can be significant include the furnace and lights. You can get a Olympic catalytic heater to reduce furnace draw, and LED lights to reduce that load. Can't do much about the water pump, it will continue to draw 7 amp hours per hour while pumping 120 gallons per hour, or use only 7 AH to empty most water tanks.
Fred.