Vintage465 - first off, find out what kind of OEM "quick connect" they will provide. Majority of panels have MC4 connectors, so this is what you want. Also, find out what wire gauge will be in there. Then we'll be able to tell the maximum number of panels and watts and volts you'll be able to install.
You're right on numbers, but mixed up with units.
10W is for maintenance in storage (it's Watts, not Amps).
80-150W is for topping up after you've used them, though 150W may take more than a day to top it up, depends on battery bank size.
Yes, panels up to 180W put out 17V, so regulator is necessary. It's called PWM controller. Such a panel is called "nominal 12V".
Big panels from 200W and up put out 30V, and are called "nominal 24V". They require MPPT controller - this is the one that converts excess volts to amps. It's more expensive than PWM, and you don't need it with a 12V panel.
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solarblvd.com for controllers and panels, their inventory is well categorized, easy to understand. Solar is mostly DIY thing, though I have a feeling that learning curve in your case might be too steep, so you will need to hire some solar installer.
Normally, people with arrays up to total 300W use 12V panels and PWM controller, and with larger arrays - 24V panels and MPPT controller. Though there are exceptions - rigs with mere 200W single 24V panel and MPPT controller, or rigs with many 100-150W 12V panels (total 400W or more), and PWM controller. I would suggest following the crowd - decide how many watts you want, and then you'll know whether you need 12V+PWM or 24V+MPPT.
Fishinghut doesn't know much about solar or doesn't have the right experience. There are people here who live off solar and leave their generators home. Others still carry generator, just in case. "Normally", in Ca you should be able to leave your genny home if you install around 500W or more. Though some people can't live off 900W solar in Ca or Az - it depends on your energy habits. Keep in mind that in order to harvest enough energy from sun, you will have to avoid camping in deep shade.
The only thing that you can't expect from solar is running A/C (and I wouldn't be surprised to hear objections, because with a lot of solar you can still run a small A/C for a few hours).