I remember reading a particular review about an inverter, once. I forget the exact model, but I do remember it was a decent quality 1000w unit. In fact, those with actual experience with 12v systems gave it good reviews.
But one reviewer gave it a rating of only one star, and insisted it was a piece of junk. But as it turned out, the guy had it connected to a small car starter battery, and was trying to power a 900w microwave with it! So, clearly, this guy had no clue what he was doing. No concept of battery capacity. No clue as to how many VA's a 900w microwave needs to operate. And apparently, no idea that inverters don't magically pull power out of thin air!
So, when I hear about folks giving a particular battery poor reviews, based on short lived lives, I can't help but wonder if these people even have a clue as to how to maintain their batteries in the first place?
Now, perhaps the OP's batteries were junk to begin with, but poor maintenance will condemn even the best of batteries to a premature demise. So how much more so with a sub-standard battery?
Clearly they were never fully charged, if being floated by a converter at 13.2-13.6v, from 80-??%, for 3 years, with never so much as a single top charge, let alone a proper equalization / de-stratification during their short lived lives. Never was an SG reading taken. Never was a pre-service top charge done. And never was a capacity test done to compare with future readings. Just one day they seemed fine, but now they're dead! ... From all this, I cannot even begin to think these batteries were properly cared for.
But hey, let's all just ignore all this, and blame the batteries. AND, let's continue to insist converters do a good job at maintaining batteries, even though dozens of folks come to this forum complaining their batteries went dead... even after 12-16 hours of "charging"! And then, let's blame everything BUT the converter! "It's your furnace, it's your fridge, it's your cpap machine". Solution? Turn everything off, sleep in the cold, use a cooler with ice, and just stop breathing at night!!! :(
If only there were a simple solution to all this. If only it were possible to install a proper battery charger that charges at the battery manufacturers' recommended rates. And if only there was a simple device for checking SG levels occasionally, and maybe even a device for taking voltage readings. Maybe, hopefully, someday perhaps, there will be a way for rv'ers to maintain their batteries. I guess, for now, we can only hope and pray.