Naio wrote:
@SoundGuy: You are almost certainly more knowledgeable than I. And I don't know enough yet to always choose wisely between your advice and that of those who say the opposite.
But your aggressive, hostile, tone makes it harder for me to take the information you offer seriously. I am here for help, not a fight. When you are hostile, I feel like I want to just turn away.
Edit: Do you think I am a man? I notice that the aggressive attitude seems to come more often from guys who do, here. There is some subtle difference in gender roles at work that I do not understand -- the same post, when read by people who know I am female, often gets a very different response.
Would you use your purse to haul and carry boulders? Same thing with a car alternator used to do heavy recharging of a deep cycle battery. The alternator is designed to charge up your engines battery quickly after starting up the car, a very small, short usage of energy.
Recharging heavy duty deep cycle battery, stuff is best left to a generator set and a charge controller, designed for that purpose. It's going to cost money to have the right tools for the job at hand, no two ways about it. If money is tight, come back and ask when you have some money to address the project.
When my gal talks and has a problem... all she wants from me is someone that will listen, acknowledge her problem, and give sympathy.
The last thing she wants is for me to solve her problem with a workable solution, something that pisses her off to no end, because that's normally what young men do. Most of the men here are older, and wiser and have learned this, how to cope with women. We listen to women, but we don't attempt to solve their problems, best to just let them figure it out on their own. Otherwise we get grief from the whole incident, and end up in the dog house.
