Hard to help with a reference to Wire Number One but no diagram. A little like telling the bomb squad to cut the yellow wire without a camera on the bomb...
Does the Reese Wiring Diagram look about like this one?

I think there are two problems with the diagram above, but I believe we can disregard them.
1. The "40A" breaker in the upper left and the wire from it to the Trailer Connector aren't relevant to the Brakes. But the Blue Wire from the Controller TO the Connector IS relevant.
2. There should be a Ground at or to the Connector.
That said and back to the troubleshooting:
1. Engine running, you press on the Brake Pedal, lower right in the diagram. The RED wire, with the "Wire Tap (not supplied)" should go HOT with 12VDC. Is that Wire #1 in your last post? Yes it should. A Meter with its Positive probe (usually Red) from that Tap, and Meter's Negative probe (usually Black) should show "+12" on the DC Volts setting.
2. Does it?
3. Do the Brake Lights come on?
4. If 2 = No and 3 = Yes, then your Tap did NOT make connection to the wire from the Brake Pedal Switch.
5. If 2 = No and 3 = No ALSO, either
6. Brake Pedal Switch is Bad. or
7. No Power to Other Side of Brake Pedal Switch so repeat 1. EXCEPT Meter Positive goes to the other terminal of Brake Pedal Switch. Meter should show "+12" with Pedal pressed or NOT.
8. Does it?
9. Yes = Bad Switch
10. No = No Power TO the Switch. perhaps you blew a fuse tinkering with the Controller.
I'd rather use a Test Light like this

than mess with a Meter. Attach the Clip to a known good ground, then probe the +12 wiring, like at the Brake Pedal Switch, with the Ice Pick end. If there's 12V, you'll see the bulb in the pick handle light up. Pre-test the Test Light on a known good source, like the Battery, before you start so you know what to look for and what it looks like when it sees voltage.
IMPORTANT TIP: At some point you'll want to test Controller Output at the Trailer Connector. From the terminal the Blue Wire is on, to the Ground Terminal. A DIGITAL METER WILL LIE TO YOU ON THIS TEST!!! You must use a Test Light.
Please try some of this and get back to us.