OP has a 08 Ram 1500, was looking at getting a TT or TH that would have overloaded his truck so he is upset with his 1/2 ton.
OPs truck is a very capable tow vehicle.......within it's ratings namely payload
Maybe when he calms down he will realize it.
But if OP wants bigger TT/TH...will need to get rid of the grocery getter and go bigger truck