I have not seen the white only strips with a remote. The only ones I have seen with a remote are the color ones, and they have a separate control box between the power source and the light strip. Also the color strips have a four wire connector whereas the white ones only have two. For a power source, anywhere you can find 12v will do. in my case, I put a strip on the top or the slides, which throws indirect light off the ceiling. For the bedroom, we had a 12v lamp on each side of the bed, so I just tapped into the wiring at the light, and ran a small wire up to the light strip. In our case, I was able just to cover the short wire with white tape, and it is almost invisible. Here are a couple of pictures that might give you ideas..
You can see wire from light up to the strip in this picture

leftover two-inch piece of led strip
