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Disagree....with compromise both get part of what they want. It's called Marriage and the only way it will work WELL. In 52 years DH and I have learned a lot about this.

I guess we will just have to agree to disagree. I would much rather have my wife happy than both of us only half happy or half disappointed with a compromise decision that works for nobody. After a career in the work place and a lifetime (almost) of being married, I learned that compromise rarely if ever works and when it appears to work it only lasts a short time. Some people pretend that it works, but in reality it really never addresses the issue. But, each to their own. It is what it is and if it works for you that is all that is important.