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Doug33
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Jun 26, 2013

Are we pretentious?

pre·ten·tious

pri-ten-chus / Adjective

Attempting to impress by affecting greater importance, talent, culture, etc., than is actually possessed.


Synonyms:

showy



I was talking to a co-worker of mine who mentioned that she owns a nice boat. Since I've known her a long time, I asked why she never told me this before. She said that she doesn't advertise it because it makes her look pretentious, as if she was bragging or showing off.

And then recently I was reading a thread here and someone mentioned that before they bought an RV, they thought RVers were pretentious. So my question is, are we? Does our zeal and our excitement for our hobby come off as looking like we are snobs or above others? When I mentioned to some people that I was buying a new TT recently, I got one reaction to the tune of "well, you must be doing well these days".

Are TT owners less snooty than owners of more expensive 5'ers and motorhomes? How about boats? On my last trip, a gigantic MH pulled up in the site next to us, and my immediate reaction was that whoever owned this RV had the big bucks (this MH had to cost > $200K). But to my surprise a normal, average looking and friendly guy got out of the MH, along with his normal, average looking and friendly kids. It's hard to think of someone as pretentious when they are hooking up a sewer line!

The irony is that while RVing, I spend 1/3 to 1/2 what non-RV owners spend on hotels and resorts. And I get to sit in my own chairs, use my own appliances, and sleep in my own bed all the time!

What say you on this topic?

53 Replies

  • How dare you mention something such as this to someone of my status. I really do not have time to be concerned with or associate with the "little people". I'll just climb into my 20 year old rv, kick back, enjoy a malt beverage while looking down my nose at the envious multitudes. (I wish I could afford to trade up but don't tell anyone!)

    Seriously, I have only encountered a few snobbish people in the nine years I have been rving. Most everyone, regardless of status, have been kind, friendly and gracious. Hope it stays that way.
  • And despite the fact that things always can and will go wrong with a TT, I don't think it could ever compare to the problems and cost of maintaining a boat. Just last weekend my next-door neighbor's boat died out on the open water - TWICE!
  • We're mid-process of going from a TT to a 5th wheel. I sure hope I don't become more snooty over the next 2 weeks. This move is due to purchasing a unit that better fits our needs. That can come in any form and has over the years.

    But you're right. I'm certain there are plenty of both envious and pretentious people out there, but for the most part we're all in what we're in due to what we can afford and how it suits or campstyles. I'm sure happy to have such a variety of neighbors.