LOL, my fear is that she will one day call it enough and leave me to backing and placing the lumber 8D. Options, that was what I was looking for. Thank you all for the info. Snowman, I will have to take out at least one set of bolts to get the axle on the bottom side of the spring and since I am doing that it would be a good time to inspect and remove all hardware. Barney's info backs that up and shows where to look for parts that need replacing. That $100 kit looks like the ticket. Lippert has all that stuff on their site, but is less than organized in it's display. I tried to figure out what lock washer to buy for my repack and even after talking to their CS, I was just as confused as she was. Pictures are worth a thousand words and Dexter does a good job presenting their product.
One last question, being that I have a Lippert axle, is there a problem using the Dexter wet bolt kit as long as the dimensions add up? (bolt and shackle length) Don't want to break some law of the universe (like removing pillow tags).
