I am with the Blue Ox lovers. I have towed a 25 ft. Dutchmen over 30,000 miles, with my 2011 E-boost F-150 from the desert trough the Rockies, FL to MT. In rain, heat, 25 to 30 mph cross winds, and darn nice weather. I have never had any issues.
However, one thing this forum was taught me is that every setup is unique, every driver perceives the same situation differently and one persons "white knuckle" ride is just a few wind bumps to another.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with finding the TV, TT and hitch combo that you like. Also there is no guarantee it will work as well for others.
Good Luck