You hit the mother-load right here on these forums. There are several groups of forums and by selecting one, you can go back and read the many and varied posts and comments. You can also do a general "search" in the search box on key words and it will bring up a bazillion comments. You can click on the main links for those comments and read the entire thread.
And then, you can also just post a new question, and if someone makes the comment that you need to search the archives, respond back and just say you've already done that.
These forums are a wealth of information. If you can weed through sarcasm, the joking, and even some of the angry-snarley posts, underneath it all is a wealth of knowledge.
I don't know of any specific type of "list" or resources you are looking for, except searching the internet and putting things together in your heard. There are some very helpful sites with a lot of information, if you take the time to explore them.
Changing Gears is one such site with a BUNCH of lists, helps, suggestions, do's and don'ts. It a great site for both beginner and a 100 year old RV veterans alike.
GoRving is a really nice site for someone initially interested in RVing. It's full of useful information, not opinionated at all, just simply lays out simple facts and let's the reader make their own decisions about things. They also have some pretty cool YouTube videos, which I still enjoy watching after all these years:
Go RVing YouTube videos, click here. Remember, the official site is GoRVing.com.
Again, YouTube is a magnificant source of information too. In the search box, type in just about anything and you'll get overwhelmed with selections to watch.
Just something off the top of my head: Compare Chevy with Ford one-ton dually. Here's what I got... simply overwhelming:
Click here.As I said, I don't know of any single resource that has it all. But maybe the above links will give you something to start with.
Remember ... don't be shy asking questions on these forums. I think there's a LOT of folks just eager to chime in and help you out!
Oh, one more:
Advantages of Single Axle or Double Axle trailers, click here.