Considering GVWR of trailer with high carrying capacity

The bottom line is either you are within the tow vehicles limits or you are not. A trip to the CAT scales will tell you that.

Being over the manufactures recommended weight limits is not necessarily illegal or unsafe. I does lead to increased wear an tear and premature failure of components.

It is the owner choice as to how hard and how often they wish to push the recommended vehicle ratings. A half a dozen trips to the local State Parks is very different from several cross county camping trips.