Guess some how I just don't get it. If your pet is a burden just get rid of it. Many of us assume people get pets and treat them as part of the family. If my pet was such a burden I would find another good home for him. Jake, my ACD, is a family member. I wouldn't ask the dog to do anything I wouldn't. One exception, Jake doesn't eat people food. Our MH is a mess. Hair all over, and I stumble over dog toys. But I wouldn't have it any other way. If you have to ask how to treat your pet you shouldn't have one. Nuff said.