When DPF was released, DEF was not yet commonly used. To keep nitrogen levels down, engines had to be tuned to run colder which caused more particulate matter. Regens were supposed to take care of built up particulates, but sometimes the generation of particulates was greater than than could be burned off.
With the introduction of DEF, nitrogen can neutralized in the exhaust stream so newer engines can run hotter without adding more nitrogen to the atmosphere. This also allows a more complete burn of fuel which reduces the particulates. Hopefully regens will now be able to keep up with the particulates and we will see longer life spans of DPF units before they have to cleaned or replaced. Because less regens are happening with DEF, we are seeing better fuel mileage even if we will not see longer DPF life.