No one is patting any thing, we are encouraging, and making suggestions, that is all. She did after all, also ask for some one to help her, we only suggest that the job is more simple than she may think and to give it a try, her self.
I didn't see anyone saying they did a "job well done" I did see encouragement for her to try it her self as it is a simple job.
I am providing a link of the installation of the Hellwig sway bar that shows step by step how to, and She does a great job on the installation.
F350 Rear Anti-sway bar installation
by Dan Chan
https://youtu.be/ORy7Cllz2_E