I lived in that area for several decades and have run the Coquihalla an uncountable number of times.
I too am towing with a Dmax and Allison.
The grades on the Coke (as we call it) are steep and long primarily in 2 places. If you come via Kamloops there is one long haul going up on the Hwy 5 out of Kamloops and another going out of Merritt.
If you do come through the Okanogan to Kelowna then the 97C out of Peachland there is a heckuva long climb there.
But! If you don't try to win any races and drive smart you will be just fine. Speed limit on the Coke is 120K and a lot of people go a lot faster than that.
Use your tow haul mode and even manual to drop a couple gears. What I do when I'm pulling my 27 foot TT is hold the revs around 3000, even 3500 on the very steep parts but I do it without having to stand on the throttle hard. Idea is to go slower and not work the engine too hard. I have never had a problem and I've towed over the Coke countless times.
Going down the other side needs attention too. Let the tranny hold you back and run down the hill without riding the brakes. Drop a couple gears there too. There are a few other steep pulls on that road but nowhere near as long as the big ones.
After Merritt and you pull the grade to the summit you will go a ways without too many big ups and downs, but then a short ways past where the toll booth used to be, the descent down towards Hope is a very long steep one, especially in area of the snowshed. That part is the steepest.
There are some rest areas along the way too.
Beautiful drive, take your time and accept the fact your going to have everyone passing you!
Enjoy!