Good news indeed on your wife. Sorry to hear that the Sorento was damaged needlessly by someone obviously driving wiithout due care and attention. I expect that they were ticketed...?
Although your Kia does not look too bad, the same good engineering that mitigated the shock that passed through to your wife also means that there may be significant structural damage to the unibody. Lets hope that it is indeed repairable. As a 2013 it should have enough residual value to make it worthwhile.
Good luck.