I've also read about this happening. Everything may *seem* under capacity, but as mentioned, are often designed to operate under ideal conditions. And as mentioned above, there have been cases of the wrong axles being installed at the factory. In one case, the manufacturer willingly covered replacement, but I think it was only if you filed a complaint (ie., no recall).
The "good" news is that a new axle doesn't cost a whole lot. Going to a HD 3" tube would be a good idea, but then you probably should replace both axles. If you replace an axle (or two), re & re is pretty straightforward. If you do replace it, you'll need to install new U-bolts. Not sure what you have for equalizers - I'd look at installing good ones like Dexter EZ-flex.
I don't think it's likely that the axle is upside down as a spring perch is welded on one side to prevent an axle from rotating. See 3rd photo.
I think you should check for other abnormalities like bent spring hangers, failed spring bushings, ovalized holes in spring hangers, etc. that could have contributed to this. I met one TT owner at a CG last year that had this happen and it was due to loose wheel bearings caused by work the PO did.
Maybe you've hit a few too many speed bumps or abrupt changes in heights of adjacent concrete slabs on a highway? Lots of sharp right angle turns? With some suspensions & frames, frame flex could be a contributing factor. If you look at a wheel during a tight turn (parking lot or CG site), you'll be surprised how much an axle bends, like in photos below (3500 lb rated). The tubing is paper thin and easy to damage.
FWIW, while looking for a photo to copy to show a spring perch on an axle, I came across the 4th photo showing how someone did an axle flip to get more ground clearance. This is how not to do it. Notice the perch is now on the underside of the axle and there is nothing to prevent the axle from rotating. You can buy just the perches to weld on.
We have upgraded to 4400 lb Alko axles from the standard factory 3500 lb ones. Funny thing is, all 4 wheels had failed seals at 7 months old requiring a complete rebuild (by dealer). Now, 10 months later, I found one bearing running too warm and I plan to replace all 4 of them pdq. Can't trust anyone to do get anything right it seems when it comes to RVs. Pffft.



