Let's try to remain friends here. I appreciate all of the feedback. I'll take the truck to the scales tomorrow and see how it turns out. We have not bought the camper yet, but if I can manage to get the weight within specs, I have no issue with taking two separate vehicles when we go to camp, we almost always do right now. I also have no problem reducing speed if it increases safety.
I'm also going to call the camper lot and ask them to put the camper on a scale and make sure that I didn't misremember details. The campers website lists the tongue weight at 800 lbs.
Thanks for the advice folks.
