http://www.tnttt.com/index.php?sid=95e95c00a28d30b73b93a058207124a5You could look into these forums as well. Tearjerkers has groups around the U.S. that could help you as well. If you haven't already found them
http://www.tearjerkers.net/new_forum/index.php?sid=439ae3a5ae5c3104b4d36c2177fbd95e
http://www.tnttt.com/index.php?sid=95e95c00a28d30b73b93a058207124a5I hope you enjoy your tear as much as I do mine.