Couple of points, unless you are a trucker it is unlikely you have towed as much as me. Several thousand miles in a year and for 50 years.
With over 1.2 million miles in a 11+ year period pulling heavy GN flatdecks/enclosed trailers legally as a owner/operator (LTL work) with a dot number using 3/4 but mostly one ton DRW trucks in a eight state area .....plus hauling three truck campers and pulling three 5th wheel rvs since the late '60s, I would say you sure must tow a lot.
I have three 250k mile company safe driver awards issued to contractors for no tickets of any kind or breaking any company driver operational rules.
I'm all for safety also ....but I'm wise enough to know my limitations and not judgemental towards others pulling a trailer slower or faster or different than I do.