Travel Trailer Towing Safety Concerns

snip...Let me start by saying I am not the tow weight police or the guy that goes to the CAT scales to set up my truck and trailer, I do know the towing capacity of my truck and what the proper setup should look like...snip

Funny thing is my truck and trailer were border line dangerous when I had it "looking" correctly. Only when I became "one of those guys that goes to the CAT scales" did I have a correctly/safely set up combo.
Looks can be deceiving.