so we're still discussing a new TV to replace our rather underpowered but otherwise great V6 dodge Dakota looked at a few pickups, 1/2 ton size with small V8 or high powered V6(ecoboost for example...
A 3/4 ton or 1 ton van...Econoline or GM are great tow vehicles. They are first and foremost designed primarily as commercial vehicles, to work day in, day out with little down time. They are tough, more than proven to handle heavily loaded (within ratings) situations.
We used a rear wheel drive van for a number of years to tow. The towing ability was great, the baggage capacity was phenomenal, our family was comfortable.