Stars, I feel your pain. We are always hauling something somewhere and if I am around he tells me he "needs" my help hooking up. But...oddly enough, I often come home and he already has it done. hmmmm...and no neighbors to help. I have finally figured out my soul purpose is to tell him how incredibly wonderfully he does EVERYTHING~!!! ( I guess someone has to do it)
It looks like I am flying solo to the TC rally in TN and am bound and determined to be able to load it - either before I leave or by the time I get back! I did load it when I picked it up, with the assistance of the seller, and managed to crack a tail light. It took me a little while to live that one down.
And I too love the "doing other things" by himself quote. May I steal it?