BuckBarker wrote:
"I am devastated. Beyond devastated. There are no words".
Not attempting to be insensitive and I hope the best for you in getting this mess resolved but...........Lose a child or spouse to cancer and then get back to me about devastation.
Oh for **ck's sake.
First, you have no way of knowing if anyone, including the OP, has lost anyone, including a spouse or child.
Second, get back to me about devastation when your wife AND three young children are ALL murdered.
See, someone always has it worse.
Should they be able to pass judgment on you for "only" losing one family member?
Of course not.
Get a life and stop making a big issue over a simple choice of words.