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siamese
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Jul 25, 2017

Who drives? Him or her?

Just curious. My wife and I are getting back into traveling by trailer after being out of it for over a decade, and in our case, I'll probably be doing all the driving and backing.

We got a pair of walkie-talkies, and are finding that they make us a much better backing team. With the exception of one close call with a very sneaky tree.

It's been our experience that my wife and I have vastly different skill sets in general, so we complement each other well.

It just happens that my vehicle handling comes to me naturally, be it a sailboat, motorcycle, or a truck and trailer rig. Is it safe (PC) to call it pretty much a guy thing? As a guy, raised in the 50's and 60's, I see vehicle handling as something I have to be competent at. Plus, I'm interested in it.

I'd be happy if my wife could pilot the rig half the time, but it's not where here skill or interest lies.

So what's the setup in your family unit? Who drives? Curious too, if the non-driver is the planner/navigator.

44 Replies

  • We've got a 33' TT, and my wife pulls it maybe 10-15% of the time. She doesn't mind pulling it, and is always offering to, but I enjoy driving, so I do most of it. She does not back, and always has an exit strategy when she pulls in somewhere.

    I should probably let her drive Mose so that she gets more comfortable with it. I keep telling my 16 years old daughter that she has to learn also.
  • I also do all the driving, in fact my wife has never driven our pickup!

    I solved the backing up communications issue by in stalling backup cameras, one òn the pickup bumper and the other high up on the back of the TT.
  • I always did all the driving, my wife would have nothing to do with it. I would have walkie talkies, but only use them if there was no cell coverage. With a walkie talkie only one person can talk at a time and the reception is usually horrible. With a cell phone I cna put it on speaker phone and concentrate on driving.
  • I don't have a TT, but I do all of MH the driving. My wife will not drive at all and I knew that when we bought it. She will drive the car when we get to our destination though. I also do all of the navigation. JMO