Our style is mostly I suggest, then the DW doesn't act like it's a good place.
Then we try my suggestion, then she likes it, then we keep going there.
The other method is the wife gets a mindset, then we check it out.
If it looks as tho our trailer won't fit comfortably without using a magic wand to get in, then come hell or high water that's where we are compelled to go.
The alternative to the above is:
California\Nevada map thumb tacked to the fence and a few darts...then when we have no more darts we argue about where the darts landed.
Somehow we end up having a great time when we settle on a spot to go.