We have used 14 twice and 16 once coming home from Yellowstone. We prefer 14 for the scenery, but 16 is a bit easier on the grades. Never tried 14A due to the 10% grades. Both 14 and 16 top out at or above 9,000 feet, so both are a good climb. You can check out the curves on the climb and descent for 14 and 16 by zooming in on Google Earth.
If you want flat land driving you can stay on I90 to just past Billings, then take routes 212, 310, 72 and 120 to get to Cody. Going all the way to Livingston, then taking 89 to the North entrance is extra miles to get to Fishing Bridge and driving in the Park is slow.