Thanks everyone for the suggestions.
We have found resorts like we describe in other areas. Bailey's in Old Orchard Beach, Maine has a separate adults only (over 21) pool with a bar and restaurant. It wasn't bad but would be a little chilly in March!
We had looked at Fun & Sun online and it does check off a lot of boxes. It seemed to be in the middle of nowhere and removed somewhat from the beach scene but so far, based on the responses leads the pack. I guess we will have to be purposely be on a shopping trip when the dance lessons fire up!
It's funny that what we are looking for is so hard to find. We have visited Florida many times and stayed in hotels or condos and had no problem finding fun spots with bars and even nightclubs on site. Is there really so little demand in the RV community for "not yet dead" resorts that it is almost impossible to find one?
Anyhow, keep the suggestions coming as I am sure that in the RV friendly state of Florida there must be more upscale, fun, beach atmosphere resorts!
