Yes you can live on 30 amps. No you can not run "Everything" at once. So while the A/C will not be run, yes run the water heater on electric, refrigerator on electric (if it is below 85F outside). When you decide it is warm enough that you want to start cooling the RV with the A/C, then change the water heater to gas only, refrigerator too. No big deal.
The A/C normally will use about 12 amps, and on a hot day as much a 14 amps. Some people report running both A/C units on a 30 amp circuit, and that is possible when it is less than about 95F out, and the A/C units are not using the full amperage that they might on a really hot day!
Other loads in the RV include the battery charger - sometimes as much as 5 or 8 amps when the battery is really discharged, but normally only about 1 amp when the battery is already full, and you are not running a lot of lights.
TV set, DVD player, and other appliances like it might only use about 1 amp.
Electric toaster, coffee maker, microwave - they can all use 10 - 12 amps each.
Just use care to not run more than 2 appliaces at a time, and you will be fine.
That said, it is possible that you will suffer from low voltage. Many campgrounds with only 30 amp services will install a 200 amp power panel, then run small #10 wire to each site. Then run more than 10 breakers on each phase of the electrical panel, or 10 each 30 amp breakers on each side of the 200 amp service, more than a 250 amp theoretical load on the 200 amp panel.
While it might work "OK" on a moderate temperature day, on a hot day, the voltage will drop a lot. Also the #10 wire will drop about 8-10 volts if you are located more than about 200' from the electric panel. At the main panel, the power company might deliver 120 volts, but 200 - 300 feet away on small wire, the resistance in the wire will cause the voltage to drop about 8-10 volts over that distance.
A 50 amp park is wired totally differently. Normally they will have only about 12 RV sites on 150 amp circuit, with larger #1 wire running everywhere, with less voltage loss over a long distance. The 150 amp circuit breakers come out of 800 amp rated power panels, wired with super large wires, so you normally will not have a large voltage loss over the distance from the meter to the RV.
You might find that you need a voltage booster! It will take in the 100 volts delivered to your site, and convert it to 112 volts for your RV. Hughes Autoformer is one brand.
Fred.