Hi.
Have you thought about little trips, say 2 weeks at a time to ease her into it?
Hand her a Rand McNally Map from Costco and let her pick the route. If she is worried about not having a place to stay, have her call ahead and make some reservations, so she has a plan of where she is going.
Just because you are full timing doesn't mean she can't go back to San Jose for her yearly check ups with Dr's, Dentist's, etc.
Her priorities will probably change if you make it to full timing. She wont worry about her hair, nails, etc so much.
Unfortunately, she may not be the full timing type of person. Alot of people need that home base as a mental form of security. Whatever you do, dont try and talk her into anything because if she is not happy, its pretty small quarters you will have with no escape!
Best of luck to you. Hope you are able to live the fulltiming dream.
