AS a bunkhouse owner I can see the day coming when my kids will no longer camp and I will move on to a non bunkhouse floor plan.
The OP appears to have young kids (1st grade) that may be around for quite awhile yet.
If you have kids bunk house is the way to go. I understand the kids are going to move on one day but a 1st grader is there to stay for now.
There will be a short transition point when older kids will be lingering around that may not coincide with the purchase of a new RV.
At that point it when you can clearly see the kids fading away it makes a lot of sense to go to a non bunkhouse plan. However I caution the OP not to make the move too soon.
Bunkhouses are not just about sleeping space. The bunkhouse provides a place for kids to hangout and more importantly have a place for all their stuff. Clothes,coats,toys,games,electronics gadgets etc. all need a home.
One of the untold secrets of RV's is that they get cluttered real easy. While everything appears roomy in the pictures. In reality it doesn't take long for stuff to end up everywhere in an RV. Having a dedicated place helps avoid the inevitable clutter.
It also sounds like he OP camps with lots of people. Having lots of beds is not a bad idea either.
My next rig will be a non bunkhouse model but my kids are older. My rig is pretty new and I may be in my bunkhouse for a few years after the kids are gone.
Nevertheless like the OP I drool at the non bunkhouse floorplans.....my day will come! LOL
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