I have had both gas and DPs.
My first observation is why suffer 3000 miles in a week with a weakened MIL?
That intinerary is torture in either gas or DP. I used to do those types of trips and eventually I figured out that we were driving PAST perfectly nice vacation spots that other people drive TO.
JMHO.
DP s are a LOT more expensive to maintain and repair. As far as longevity of diesel over gas, todayโs V10 is a reliable drivetrain easily good for 100K miles.
As far as power, my CAT C7 DP gets passed up long grades by V10s. After all they gave more HP.
The 2016 up six speed has downhill breaking. Not as good as a PAC brake but ok I hear.
Drive both. DP drive better but you pay a price. Maybe not required if you donโt drive more than week or two a year.
Iโll say this, we half time, stay more than drive, but much of our northern interstates really suck.
A DP doesnโt make those roads smooth. They just suck a little less
My Kharma ran over my Dogma.