The Key as many have said is Speed, keep it Slow (60 mph in the mountains coming down from Big Bear will get one killed, IMHO) and allow the Engine & Transmission to do the Slowing, not the Breaks. Use the Breaks very Sparingly. Do NOT Ride the Breaks. But you wrote that yourself. It is easy to allow the Heavy RV to get moving faster than it should, Keep it Slow early on.
Better to start going down very Slow once you get into the Curves & Steep Descents, Keep the transmission in a low gear. Depending on the Steepness, may need First Gear.
Try not to psych yourself out, Nothing to Fear but Fear Itself, however, it is good to be Cautious.
I'm not familiar with the route up to where you are going, often in mountains they do have emergency 'truck' ramps for out of control truck to run up onto to slow them down.
Truck Escape RampsOtherwise, one can 'brush' into the side of the hillside to slow a vehicle down, in other words, rub the side of the RV onto the side of the hillside if you have lost the breaks completely. Which would be an extremely unlikely thing to happen, IMHO.
Not sure if you will need to use 1st gear going up or not, depends on the steepness of the highway & the power of your rig. Use whatever gear one needs to keep it moving upward.
Likewise, you which gear you need to keep it slowly going down safely. Might just need First. Use it if you need it. Forget you are from SoCal & take it nice and easy when you start down.
Have Fun & Don't Sweat It......To Much.
Post Edit:
Some wrote this about Escape Ramps:
"In steep mountainous areas,the brakes on large heavily loaded vehicles can become overheated and then fail to work on long downhill runs. The ramp is usually located on a curve of the downhill road. The road curves right or left and the ramp continues straight and up a steep hill. The ramp is an excavated trench filled with loose, round, smooth river rock. When the runaway truck enters the ramp, the effect is the same as when you try to walk through deep snow or in deep water in a swimming pool, substantial yet gradual resistance. This brings the truck to a safe halt with no assistance from the brakes.
Whatever you do, you don't want to mistake a ramp for a place to pull off to take a photo because once you're in the loose gravel, you'll need a tow truck to get you out."
I did a Quick Look on Google Maps, it looks like the route has many pull outs for viewing, etc. Be careful using any of them on the way down, one can be going too fast at times to really be able to stop in one of those. At least be very careful you are not moving too fast to stop safely, make sure you are going slow enough to use a pull off.
Best of Luck on your Trip.
My wife was Born & Raised in the San Gabriel Valley & we go out there a lot, but I have never gone up to the Big Bear area. Her folks lived in the Victorville area for a while, we drove the Cojon Pass many times, but never when up to Big Bear.
But I have driven in mountains for many years in NM & the West. Born & Raise a Texas Flatlander, but really like the hills & curves. Really fun to drive.
Oh, yes, I did have a C-Class from '97 to 2005; a somewhat short one, about 22'.
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