On most campers there is but one outlet, NOW on SOME campers there are 3 dump vavles.. Black, Gray, and "Main"
Follow the pipe back, if it comes first to a valve, that is a "Main" More on this later,, continue to follow it back, sooner or later it should split into two lines, one big, one small, the big one is the black tank it too should have a valve, the small one is the gray, and another vavle there too
To use.. Hook up and open main valve.
Dump black tank (open valve)
Dump gray (open valve)
Close all valves
To rinse black tank using contents of gray
Open main valve,
Dump black tank
CLOSE MAIN VALVE
Open gray valve
Count to 10
Close gray and open black and main
Do this again
Then open gray and main to finish dumping gray
And close all valves when done.