Hitch installers and dealers around here locate the pin/ball zero over the axle for short beds and generally up to 4" forward or where ever the operator requests.
I use zero over the trucks rear axle on all of my short bed trucks. Never had any issues.
I have heard of commercial haulers asking for 6" forward for a pin/ball location on 3500/4500 cabd and chassis trucks.
Depending on hitch loads moving 2" forward makes little if any difference on the rear axle but may add 20-60 lbs on the trucks front axle. All depending on trucks wheelbase/distance from the rear axle to the trucks front spring hanger/other considerations. In other words one size won't fit all in total lbs.
"good judgment comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment" ............ Will Rogers
'03 2500 QC Dodge/Cummins HO 3.73 6 speed manual Jacobs Westach
'97 Park Avanue 28' 5er 11200 two slides