Prayer for both of you and family. Right now you do what you need to do/want to do.
But don't give up on life. As time passes and you are still able travel. If you don't want to travel do what want to do.Find some joy. Ran across two Men who traveled on their own in their mid nineties at the factory in Decatur, Ind.Now they are both over 100, and I have lost track of them. Probably at home and fishing but when we get our new Mh may bump into them again. Five years ago Retired Navy 93 years old at VA in Nashville he was getting around better than a 30 year old.In high gear all the time with things he "wanted" to do.