I almost lost my wife and partner of 32 years last fall to a major hit and run car wreck. While sitting in the surgery waiting room for the good doctors to try to put her back together I had one of those moments of pure clarity, money and possessions do not have any meaning if your heart is gone. She now is physically disabled and retired, I kept my corporate job to pay the on going medical and for our fun together, but we now take off as much time as possible, bought us a brand new class C to go out easier whenever we want, and I no longer bring my stress from work home, EVER. Oddly enough our life is better now than it has ever been, except for the frequent bouts of pain from her broken body. How much longer we have we do not know as more surgeries are scheduled but by golly we live every day like it is our last, and it is liberating! Unfortunately in our modern society we easily loose focus on what really matters until life smacks you hard on the back of the head. Think hard and follow your heart, you cannot go wrong.