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dedmiston
Mar 01, 2023Moderator
toedtoes wrote:
How am I NOT supposed to take it personally? I am the only one on this thread who wrote "I don't disagree". You then put down people who say "I don't disagree". Just because you didn't know I was "standing right there" doesn't make it not refer to me.
And the truth is I'm being called out for being disingenuous, yet you are being disingenuous.
Saying "I'm sorry that you were offended" is disingenuous. It's saying you're sorry for my actions not your own. And you are not sorry for my actions - you are not feeling remorse in my stead. You are unhappy/mad that I took offense at what you wrote.
So basically you have just done what you have insulted me/others for doing.
OK. Go ahead and be offended then. It's your choice.
And "I'm sorry that you were offended" isn't disingenuous. It's probably insensitive and possibly unkind, but I assure you it's 100% accurate. In other words, I think it's a shame that you choose to have your nose bent out of shape because someone else has a dim view of a phrase that you used.
You don't like the words that I used, but I chose to sleep like a baby last night and I'll sleep great again. You disagree with what I said, but I choose not to be offended.
Hopefully we can move past this though. Or not. That's up to you and it's fine with me either way. Good luck to you.
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