why reply if you are going to be mean?
Seen this many times, but first time it happened to me. I asked a question here because i was looking for personal experience about a location. Instead of helpful info, i get "call the place", really,...
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Crowe wrote:
On here, or in person, you ask for my opinion....do not be surprised if I give it to you.
Bingo. I often tell people if you don't REALLY want to know the answer, don't ask me the question.
If a member thinks the OP should go look somewhere else for the answer, it would be a kindness to not say so.
Why? The people who won't take the time to call for a definitive answer are the same people who criticize others when they don't get the answer they want or turn around after a bad experience and say "but you said". If they can take the time to post a question, they can take the time to make a simple phone call.
HERE IS THE PROBLEM. You feel that a post asking for information is to you personally. It is NOT. It is requesting info from posters that have info, not posters that know nothing about the subject. Why not just ignore the post and go on to something of which you have knowledge (if anything does exist)? Everyone will appreciate the forum more.
