kejones62,
You said "....which is basically just an
overpaid plumber". WOW... you must've been making the REALLY BIG BUCKS then!!! LOL
While I don't have loads of experience with RV and shower head fittings, I've never seen any other than the standard fittings. I just had to buy & install a new shower head/hose combo for my parents sticks & bricks home built back in 1964, and things fit right up. It was basically the same model I installed in my RV about 10 years ago. Come to think of it, I didn't even remember seeing any options for purchasing the shower head kits with DIFFERENT sized threads, so that leads me to think there is just a single standard.
Did you have this RV since it was new? Is it possible a previous owner did some "custom plumbing"? I wouldn't think it would be assembled with the wrong fitting at the factory, but who knows? They might have just tightened things up until they didn't leak and ship it off to the dealer if the correct fitting wasn't available. I'm sure it wouldn't be the first time.
I hope you find the resolution to your problem. Please post who you resolved the problem so others reading here can benefit from your experiences.
Good Luck,
~Rick
On Edit: I went to Amazon and under the two star reviews I found this from a verified purchaser:
"The nut that attaches to the shower is poorly made. I have three showers, it would only screw on properly to one of them. And it still leaked. The nut is very short and was made of cheap materials. Brass Insert????
I would not recommend this product." Which is pretty odd that it would fit one shower, but not two others.
I think this could be a case where you'll save time by just bringing things with you to your local hardware store and making sure everything fits before you buy. Or it can give you the opportunity to replace a part (diverter fitting?) so it fits the standard shower extension hoses available.
2005 Georgie Boy Cruise Master 3625 DS on a Workhorse W-22
Rick, Gail, 1 girl (27-Angel since 2008), 1 girl (22), 2 boys (23 & 20).
2001 Honda Odyssey, Demco Aluminator tow bar & tow plate, SMI Silent Partner brake controller.