(My opinion)
Enjoy the girlfriend life and think about it big time before getting married again. The more you try it, the divorce rate increases.
When you break that down by number of marriages:
41 percent of first marriages end in divorce.
60 percent of second marriages end in divorce.
73 percent of third marriages end in divorce.
http://www.mckinleyirvin.com/Family-Law-Blog/2012/October/32-Shocking-Divorce-Statistics.aspxAnd don't think you have to have a girlfriend to show off to the ex-wife. Heck, I enjoyed going a few months without one. No one to cater to but my kid. After a couple of tries, I have the perfect girlfriend now.
The older you get, the more you will realize having an expensive car or truck to impress someone is silly. I am debt free and love it not having payments!
Best wishes to you and the kids.
Again, these are just my opinions from experience.