Thought I would update everyone. Tonight I spent hours making adjustments and corrections as advised by most of you. One thing I can say is the majority of the advise and links on setting the hitch were consistent.
I made sure all tires on the TV were asked constant with the same pressure. I started on a level surface and took all measurements of the TV and leveled the camper. Then filled my TV with normal gear I take with. I then set ball height as close as I could according to the hitch manual (I was too low by a setting so I had to come up). I then hooked up to check my angle of the spring bars, I was by far not getting enough pressure on the during bars. I unhooked, adjusted the hitch head angling it away from the TV, rehooked and measured my front axle height and how level the trailer was. I repeated this 7 or 8 times before I final got the front axle to come back down to where I started and got the trailer almost level ( it is slightly lower in the front). I am on the very first chain link on my spring bars and I cannot to the hitch head back any further our I will not get the chains to reach the hooks on the tongue.
By the time I got all this finished I was down to a 5 mph winds, but went for a test drive anyway. I didn't have any issues other than a very small trail wag on the last couple miles coming home. Still not sure how much it really was as I was being very observant of anything going on as I was on pretty high alert trying to see/feel what was going on.
I ordered a second sway control bar to add to the driver's side just because of the size of my TT. I will install this on Wednesday or Thursday night as we're leaving town Friday morning for the weekend.
The place we're going has a local scale and I personally know the manager so I will be rescaling the whole rig then.
Right now my only questions are with tongue weight of 860 (previous scale weight and assuming this hasn't changed) and spring bars at 1000 that are tipped as far back as they can add still get them hooked up, do I need heavier spring bars? I have no fresh water on board now and if I do put it on I'm assuming this is going to add a minimum of 140 to the tongue weight.
Have I missed anything to check or do at this point?