I have my fingers crossed that our next weekend camping out is not ruined by the issues the OP brought up. We have reservations at a CG within and hour of DC / Baltimore metro area. We where going to have a group camping weekend farther out, but some of our group don't want to drive far for "just a short weekend". I have hopes that it won't be too bad since it is a small commercial CG with limited amenities and not much for kids activities to draw families (I love kids, just not the screaming through the CG type).
I usually prefer a minimum of 3 to 4 hours drive north and west , away from the city and / or the beach craziness, up into the mountains. My wife even gives me a slight hard time on the long drive after a work day issue, but I always remind her that I have more ambition to drive farther to escape the idiots than I do have tolorance for spending my off time being annoyed by them. I (and my siblings who also camp / RV ) even avoid the advertised "getaway" locations around our region - no beach, no Poconos, no Raystown lake -too crowded / crazy....IMO, people are like caged rats - too many in too small of and area and someone is gonna chew on someone else's tail....
One trip to a DE state park was the worst camping experience I have ever had - the loud drunken parties did not stop all night long. One camper was chopping firewood all night...looking back, I realized the fact that they had the largest quiet hours / rules sign I have ever seen should have been a clue.....