Me Again wrote:
Slippery slope!
http://www.monstertransmission.com/68RFE-Transmission_c_5753.html
That is not entirely true. You can just get an optimized stock tune that does not add any power to engine but alters the trans tuning for longevity and better driving habits. The smooth shifts that the OP is talking about with his actually worse for your transmission that quick more firm shifts that create less heat. You can also alter shift points so that the truck does not shift into higher gears too soon like the stock trans does to save fuel.
Customized tuning does not automatically mean breaking parts or adding high horsepower like many here believe. There are many people that leave their tunes on a low power tow tune and get many miles out of their transmission. There also also those who can get many miles out of their stock trans with a +200 hp tune because they drive smart rolling into the throttle when needed instead of pushing it to the floor instantly. Then you have those who like to take off like a bad out of hell all the time, take their truck to the track all the time, do donuts in parking lots or go wide open throttle at highways speeds. Those people generally have transmission issues stock or not.
Although, if someone is afraid of the "slippery slope" then they should stay on the porch. However, they shouldn't hassle those willing to pay to play. I have seen people spend their money on far stupider things, yet never say a word because it is none of my business to nag someone on how I think they should spend their money.