So so sorry for your loss......there are just no words to take away the pain & sorrow. Lwiddis, gave some excellent advice "the same advice My 81 year old Mother was given in December of last year, when my father passed after 60 years of marriage". If you would like, I can send you a copy of an article written by a widow, who went through the same trying experience. If you are interested, just drop me a note.
Take Care & God Bless, Bruce