The truck has ratings for what it can tow and for what it can carry. These ratings were calculated without aftermarket accessories, passengers, or cargo. Any added weight from these items / people reduces both the available payload and max tow rating, pound for pound.
The numbers below, are ratings for the hitch receiver, itself. Not the truck. The truck itself, may or may not have a 9500 lb tow rating.Dead Weight Hitch - Max Trailer Wt. 5000 lbs 5000.0 min 5000.0 max
Max trailer weight 5,000 lbs, without a weight distributing hitch.Dead Weight Hitch - Max Tongue Wt. 600 lbs 600.0 min 600.0 max
Max tongue weight 600 lbs, without a weight distributing hitch.Wt Distributing Hitch - Max Trailer Wt. 9500, 5000 lbs 5000.0 min 9500.0 max
Max trailer weight 9,500 lbs, with a weight distributing hitch.Wt Distributing Hitch - Max Tongue Wt. 1000, 500 lbs 500.0 min 1000.0 max
Minimum tongue weight 500 lbs and max tongue weight 1,000 lbs, with a weight distributing hitch.Check your drivers door post for a tire / loading stickeer. It will show a number for max occupant / cargo weight. That number is what the truck was rated to carry, at the time it left the factory. From that number, subtract the weight of added accessories, people, and cargo that would normally get loaded for a camping trip. The remaining capacity, is what the truck has available to carry a weight distributing hitch (WDH) and the trailer tongue weight.
If you know your available payload, subtract for the WDH (about 100 lbs), and divide the remaining number by .13. That will give you a ball park figure for what loaded trailer weight you can tow. It's probably not going to be in the 9000 lb range.
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