I don't think you made a bad decision, just keep on them until it's right. You just put down a good few dollars on a major purchase, and a home for the most part. They're job is to make it 100% or better so you don't have to worry.
I found this to be a very good read. Thanks much for taking the time to write it out and post it. As me and my girlfriend are working through our decisions, and narrowing down to what we want (we think we found it!), these questions and thoughts ha...